my job provide was rescinded after I requested for extra money — Ask a Supervisor

A reader writes:

I’m at present in a job the place I believed I used to be going to develop much more shortly however I haven’t, so I’ve began to discover different choices. The difficult half about this place is that I’m in advertising and my supervisor isn’t monitoring any outcomes or success (which is a fundamental expectation for this sort of work). Due to that, I’m having a very exhausting time touchdown a job. Interviewers are blown away I’m not utilizing fundamental advertising enterprise practices, however my supervisor is simply very out of the loop.

I’ve had about 40 interviews since December, however no job gives till now. I lastly acquired a proposal and, after a lot rejection, was so excited that I cried. As soon as I acquired the provide letter, I took it to my mentor, who stated, “By no means take the preliminary wage provide. HR is at all times anticipating some negotiation.”

So I replied to the provide with a really good response asking in the event that they have been keen to go up by $10,000, anticipating that possibly we might meet within the center at $5,000 over their preliminary provide. By no means as soon as did I say I might give up if I didn’t obtain it; I simply positioned it as a easy query. I don’t have a whole lot of expertise with gives however I used to be instructed by at the least 5 folks (together with my mentor) that it’s extraordinarily regular to barter, so I felt assured about doing this.

The hiring rep shortly replied and stated the provide they made was the very best quantity they’d budgeted, however she would ask the crew. I assumed that even when the reply was a no, it will be advantageous. Nonetheless, she got here again an hour later and rescinded the provide, saying that they didn’t really feel the negotiation had gone nicely. I attempted to name and electronic mail to inform them I’d be keen to take the preliminary provide however they by no means responded to me.

I’m devastated. This may have been a $20,000 bump in my wage and a title change. I’m at such a low level after a lot rejection. I used to be able to signal this provide and begin the brand new job and had already began speaking to my supervisor at my present job to get her prepared for me transferring on. All 5 individuals who instructed me to barter say they have been astonished.

At this level, I remorse my electronic mail a lot. If I had by no means negotiated — which I wasn’t intending anyway till everybody instructed me to – I might nonetheless have a brand new job. I’m a large number. Is that this regular? Did I do one thing flawed?

You’ll be able to learn my reply to this letter at New York Journal right now. Head over there to learn it.